Recommended Reading
Books on death, dying, and meaning
As a death doula, I find deep wisdom, comfort, and insight in the words of others who have faced life’s most profound transitions. Whether you're looking for guidance, connection, or just a powerful read, these books have moved and inspired me—and I hope they’ll do the same for you.
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End-of-Life journeys
The Collected Regrets of Clover by Mikki Brammer
A heartwarming, fictional portrait of a death doula navigating love, loss, and meaning.Every Note Played by Lisa Genova
A beautifully written novel about ALS, estrangement, and redemption.The Book of Two Ways by Jodi Picoult
A thought-provoking story about the choices we make and the lives we might have lived.Still Alice by Lisa Genova
A moving, personal story of early-onset Alzheimer’s told from the patient’s point of view.
Legacy, letting go, and spiritual wisdom
The Forever Letter by Elana Zaiman
A guide to writing heartfelt letters to pass on your values, stories, and love.
So That Your Values Live On by Jack Riemer & Nathaniel Stampfer
Practical and meaningful tools for creating an ethical will—sharing not just what you have, but what you believe.Judith: Letting Go – Six Months in the World’s Smallest Death Café by Mark Dowie
A moving and intimate account of caregiving, community, and dying—set in a small, intentional space where death is welcomed and witnessed.
Memoirs and reflections
When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi
A neurosurgeon faces terminal illness and contemplates the meaning of life and vocation.
The Bright Hour by Nina Riggs
A poetic, poignant memoir about living—and mothering—with terminal cancer.No Cure for Being Human by Kate Bowler
A raw, honest exploration of what it means to live well when time feels limited.Ten Thousand Joys & Ten Thousand Sorrows by Olivia Ames Hoblitzelle
A couple’s spiritual and emotional journey through Alzheimer’s, written with depth and grace.Being Mortal by Atul Gawande
A must-read on aging, medicine, and the limits of what modern care can do. Insightful and deeply human.
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I’m always reading and learning. If there’s a book that’s helped you navigate loss, dying, caregiving, or grief—I’d love to hear about it.
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